I can whip through the dishes without too much strife. Bowls, plates, funky shaped kid cups are no challenge because loading is just grown-up Tetris. I find space where there was none and can work some serious magic.
It’s…fun?
No. That’s too far.
The psychological mountain comes when I gaze across the counter at the mess of pots I’m doomed to face, or even just one. I always save those for last because maybe the End Times will come and I won’t have to do them.
Why oh why are they such a ridiculous thorn in my side?! Hands down the most dreaded, most cumbersome, most detested items to scrub are the oatmeal pot and cast iron skillet.
I’m cringing right now.
But St. Theresa says that’s where He moves. The pots, the pans, the grime, the gross. Jesus is there in the drudge while I work to love my family and overcome myself in such a menial task that almost doesn’t deserve mentioning.
It reminds me of another saintly wisdom I see pretty often:
Our ordinary activities are not an insignificant matter. Rather they are the very hinge on which our sanctity turns, and they offer us constant opportunities of meeting God…”
–St. Josemaria Escriva
It’s when we’re elbow deep in suds that the Lord is present. So much of our days are spent in monotonous routine that seem incompatible with holiness – somehow it feels a little more impossible for us facing the same to-dos day in and out.
But that’s where we’ll obtain sainthood. Sanctity will come when we go through with the ordinary and the challenging tasks praying to Jesus, “Show me where you are.”
And if He’s right there in the kitchen when we’re facing crusted-on scrambled eggs, then we can be all the more confident of His presence when we’re elbow deep in trials, doubt, or any other detested task.
Because Jesus stays with us, and calls us nearer when we’re performing the most dreaded, put-off tasks; or when we’re enduring the greatest difficulty. He refines us into love if we accept the grace.
And maybe what looks like a big scary pot to scrub is actually the way to God.
On another note…
I was absolutely blown away by your response to The Blog Post About Anxiety last week. Your emails and messages shouted a big “ME TOO!” from so many readers that I think it’s safe to say none of us are alone in this. You guys – the whole anxiety/depression thing is everywhere and at long last I’m able to talk about it without fear or shame. I’ll be praying for healing for each one of you who endures this struggle and ask you do the same for me. Let’s swap a couple of Hail Marys!
An extra special, heartfelt THANKS! to my friend Meghann H. for sending this quotation from St. Theresa my way. Apparently this bit of wisdom is found all over the place, but I hadn’t ever read it until you sent it, girl! You’re the best.
Do you have a quote from a saint you’d like to see here? Email me at katie{at}thecatholicwife{dot}net.
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Kristi says
This is my FAVORITE saint. I needed some time with the saints today! Thanks, Katie!
Katie Sciba says
Yay! I love it when God works like that 🙂 I love that this is legitimate, direct wisdom about something so incredibly mundane. It’s good 🙂
Mary says
Awesome, thanks! I was dreading the huge jambalaya pot!
Katie Sciba says
Haha yes ma’am!! I feel you, lady!
Amy Brooks says
I didn’t get to read your anxiety post yet, but I too suffer from it and finally – after not getting pregnant for 10 years – went back on medication. ( I was afraid to be on it if I got prego). I love this post though – because it is in these ordinary activities that my mind wanders and the anxiety sets in. I think I need to be doing bigger, “more important” things. . . but, I need to be reminded that I don’t! These little things should be done with love and to give Glory to God! Thank you for this reminder 🙂
Amy @ The Salt Stories says
I was always a St. Terese of Lisuex kind of girl, until I did some research for Avila’s feast day on October 15th.
http://thesaltstories.com/st-teresa-of-avila-making-new-friends-in-heaven/
My favorite quote,
“Let nothing disturb you,
Let nothing frighten you,
All things are passing away:
God never changes.
Patience obtains all things
Whoever has God lacks nothing;
God alone suffices.”
— St. Teresa of Avila